Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? 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Was I My True Self During My Affair? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict or Just Wanting Something More? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Evil, or Just Extremely Cruel? 10/24/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A What Caused Him to Have an Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016 Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016 Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things? 9/07/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016 Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP? 6/28/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's the Darkness Like? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »
