Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 292 Resources Type Title Posted Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay In It 12/13/2021 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
