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What Can We Do? 7/24/2019 Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019 Q&A Could You Provide Some Feedback on Infidelity That Happens in Good Marriages? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Create a New Marriage If the Old Marriage Is Dead? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Our Small Group Dynamic? 7/10/2019 Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency? 7/10/2019 Q&A What Is Normal in Our Situation? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Does Attraction Work with Sex Addiction? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Feel like They Aren't My Second Choice? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery? 7/10/2019 Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Worton's Third Task to Infidelity? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Process the Pain during the Divorce Process? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse So Stuck on the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Thoughts of Comparison? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A Am I Safe? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts in Regards to My Issue? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Those Who Divorce after Infidelity? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Resistance to Re-Engaging Sexually with My Mate? 6/26/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Not Being Romantic This Far into Recovery? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Own My Part in the Marriage Dynamic If I’m Not Aware of It? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect My Kids from the Damage of Divorce? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Can You Give Me Hope in Light of My Wayward Spouse Choosing Divorce? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…303132333435363738…next ›last »