For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019
Video Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019
Video Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019
Text Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019
Video Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019
Video Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019
Video Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019
Video Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019
Video Q&A How Long Should I Wait for the Wayward to Fight for the Marriage? 4/03/2019
Video Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019
Video Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019
Video Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019
Video Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019
Video Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019
Video Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019
Video Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019

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