For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum? 12/05/2014 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/03/2014 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/26/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?! 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's? 11/14/2014 Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act 11/12/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425