Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal?

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My husband and I have been doing this "dance" of talk just enough to get everyone to a happy place again, then back to pretend normal. I believe we can be a couple that is transparent, intimate, and filled with trust. He had multiple affairs, and I am still here because I believe in him and US. But I am scared to "rock the boat", and I do not have the confidence to jump in for fear of the raw pain that will follow along with the aftermath of disclosure.

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