Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do?

Question

My husband's affair last over three years and it was with someone he was involved with before we were married 15 plus years ago. His AP was in constant contact with him and me after disclosure. We have blocked her number from our cell phones, we cancelled FB accounts, etc. However she has contacted a mutual friend and said if my husband doesn't contact her she will contact our family, via social media, and let them know about the affair. Our families do not k...