For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 1262 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021 Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021 Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021 Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? 6/17/2021 Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry? 6/16/2021 Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021 Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
