For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020 Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth? 9/02/2020 Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind? 9/02/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced? 9/02/2020 Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave? 9/02/2020 Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence? 9/02/2020 Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020 Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now? 9/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage? 9/02/2020 Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced? 9/02/2020 Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now? 8/27/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020 Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting? 8/13/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity? 8/13/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »
