For the Unfaithful Spouse
Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
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330 Resources
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Video Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Text Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Text Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Text Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Video Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021
Video Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021
Text Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021
Text How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021
Video Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021
Video Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021
Video A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021
Video Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021
Video Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020
Text The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020
Video Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020
Text Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020
Video Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020
Video Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020

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