Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 1063 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/03/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/26/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A When Will my Unfaithful Spouse Gain Clarity on his Behaviors? 11/20/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »