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How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 427 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is My Wife Safe? 5/26/2017 Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations? 5/24/2017 Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back? 5/03/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed? 1/24/2017 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Face this Ongoing Trauma While my Spouse 'Let's Go' of the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&A What are Scientific Psychological Side Effects from this sort of Marital Betrayal? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Recover From His Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Our Marriage Too Broken to Fix After Her Multiple Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended? 9/22/2016 Q&A Should We Wait to Discuss the Affair and Work on Ourselves First? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016 Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Process All This Information About the Affairs? 9/14/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A Can I Regain a Joy for Life? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage? 7/19/2016 Pages« first‹ previous123456789next ›last »