Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing? 4/15/2026
Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth? 3/10/2026
Q&A Can You Explain the FANOS Exercise from EMS Weekend? 2/26/2026
Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery? 2/26/2026
Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work? 2/04/2026
Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online? 2/04/2026
Q&A How Do We Overcome This Destructive Cycle? 2/04/2026
Q&A Can You Remind Me How to Do the Voice of Love/Voice of Fear Exercise? 1/21/2026
Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States? 12/09/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels? 12/09/2025
Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents? 12/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025
Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark? 10/02/2025
Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive? 10/02/2025
Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025
Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025
Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025
Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025
Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025
Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them? 7/02/2025
Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025
Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025
Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024
Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024
Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024
Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
