For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Will She Ever Know Why She Really Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Affair Type Category Does an Entire Second Identity Fall Under?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Relationship Recover from a Substance-Fueled Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State?
Video icon Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?
Video icon Q&A What If My Unfaithful Spouse Feels They Do Not Need Therapy or Help?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to What Seems Like Selfish Demands From Her to Do Things As We Did Before?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2.
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle?
Video icon Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This?
Video icon Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves?
Video icon Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?
Video icon Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?