For the Unfaithful Spouse
Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
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333 Resources
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Video Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025
Video Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025
Video Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025
Video Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025
Video Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025
Video Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025
Text Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025
Video Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025
Text Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025
Text Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025
Video Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood? 2/25/2025
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025
Video Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Text How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025
Video Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025
Video Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Video Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024
Video Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024
Text How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024
Video Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024
Video The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024
Video Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Video Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024
Video Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024
Text How to Find Answers 8/21/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Text Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Video Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024
Video Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024
Video What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024
Video What is Healing? 1/10/2024
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Text Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023

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