Emotional Regulation
Rick offers suggestions for managing anger and resolving conflict within relationships. Learn how to have rational versus emotional conversations and how to control the flow of emotions.
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641 Resources
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Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Text Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025
Video Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Video Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025
Video Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025
Text What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025
Video Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025
Video Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025
Video Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024
Video Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024
Video Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Video How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024
Video The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Text Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024
Video A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024
Video Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024
Video Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Text Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024
Video Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024
Video Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Video Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024
Text Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024
Video What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Video Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023
Text How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023
Video Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023
Text Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 7/19/2023
Text How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023
Video Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023
Text Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023
Text Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023

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