Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 47 Resources Type Title Posted Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024 Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? 6/19/2024 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me? 7/08/2021 Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God? 12/17/2020 Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? 10/05/2020 Q&A Has Affair Recovery Considered a Bible Study for Those Struggling with Their Identity and Relationship with Christ? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for My Wayward Spouse to Accept Unconditional Love? 8/23/2019 Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for a Feeling of Oneness Again? 5/15/2019 Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is My Struggle with God Normal and How Do I Move past It? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him? 3/08/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A What Does Prayerfully Consider Really Mean? 10/24/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Q&A What Does This Verse from Proverbs Mean for Me? 8/24/2016 Q&A Can You Support Your Statement 'Faith is an Organ of the Soul'? 7/12/2016 Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's God's Plan for Intimacy With Him and Marriage? 5/17/2016 Q&A Where was God in That Moment? 3/08/2016 Q&A Is There Another Solution Besides God for My Husband? 1/21/2016 Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Long can a Christian Continue to Sin? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A How can I Heal the Marriage With an Ambivalent Spouse? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014
