Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues? 4/01/2026
Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity? 4/01/2026
Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth? 3/10/2026
Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe? 2/26/2026
Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State? 2/11/2026
Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work? 2/04/2026
Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day? 1/21/2026
Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner? 10/22/2025
Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain? 10/22/2025
Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025
Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025
Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025
Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025
Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025
Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025
Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel? 4/23/2025
Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024
Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023
Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023
Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023
Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023
Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023
Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023
Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023
Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
