Q&A How Do We Find Closure in Our Situation? 2/11/2026
Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025
Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025
Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025
Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024
Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023
Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023
Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner? 12/06/2022
Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022
Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022
Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022
Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021
Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021
Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021
Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021
Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020
Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020
Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020
Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020
Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them? 8/13/2020
Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away? 8/07/2020
Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020
Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020
Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020
Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020
