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The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 282 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025 Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025 Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse? 3/26/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025 Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025 Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025 Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025 Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025 Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025 Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024 Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023 Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Pages123456next ›last »