Question I would like to know if men REALLY get over an extended affair. I see that men can stay out of commitment and that it can get better to some degree, but does it ever really feel just plain good and normal again? I've been at this for more than a year, and it's still awful, it just feels impossible at this point to believe I will ever feel consistently good or have a normal sex life with a wife who cheated. In the community forums, many of the women seem recovered, but it is…