Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question D-day was 25 months ago. I caught my wife and she told me that she'd had a one night stand with minimal emotional involvement. I had been very much in love and happy in our marriage and I took it very hard. Over the next 18 months, things improved a little, but not a lot. I was still depressed, with a lot of intrusive thoughts and disturbed sleep. Then 7 months ago I learned the full truth (at least I think it is): that it was a very…