Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband and I are currently receiving counseling services individually and we both feel like it would be beneficial to start marriage counseling together. We are unsure first of all when we should start this process. It has been a little over 3 months since our D- day. The other question is; should we use a third party counselor or one of our current counselors for the couples counseling? What should we look for in a marriage coun…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Recovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoveryStrengthening MarriageRL_Media Type: Audio