Question Our children are refusing to have anything to do with myself or my spouse. They see me as “weak” for staying and him as “scum” for cheating. They don’t believe that we should try to salvage anything because it’s obvious that we’ve both been unhappy for so long. They think that we’re stuck in old world views and aren’t able to conform to the new world and do what we need to do to have a great life. They believe that by us making the choice to work through this t…