Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hi, Although my husband is making consistent progress, I feel detached from him. My therapist asked, what would it take to restore that if possible? I said for my husband to tell his parents and one of his closest friends, that the lies he told about me in the early days after D Day were to justify his behavior. He has only told them both that / She did nothing to deserve this or that I should bare no blame for his affair. I find that s…