Q&A Am I Someone Who Can't Recover from This? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Hi Leslie John, I always stated and made it very clear from the beginning of our relationship that I would never put up with cheating and lying. It was just understood. He knew how I felt. There was never an issue with this because I was sure it would never be a problem in our marriage. I was so wrong! Now that I have had all his affairs dumped in my lap in 2012 (spanning a 15 year period) I feel somehow I have let myself down. I have had a lo…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFind HopeHandling DiscoveryIntrusive ThoughtsRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Audio