Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. My husband told me that he and his AP expressed their love for one another whenever they were together. Looking back, he realizes that it was nothing close to love. In fact, earlier on in the relationship he thought he felt it but as his 4 year affair continued, he felt his feelings lessening. He can't identify exactly when he realized that he didn't love her but he kept saying it anyway. He also found that the last year of the affair was less o…