Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Two years ago, I found out that my husband had 2 emotional affairs with a coworker. We attended some counseling which did nothing to help, I did Harboring Hope, and we attended an EMS Weekend. I had to actually move out of our home because he became so abusive when I asked questions about the affairs. We were separated for 10 months and when I moved back home, I thought we were going to be ok and move forward. Then I discovered 3 weeks after mov…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationHandling DiscoveryIntrusive ThoughtsSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Audio