All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Stop Flooding? 5/18/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/18/2018 Q&A Is There Hope? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do Most Affairs End Badly? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can Men Have Control over Masturbation? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Is Your Opinion on Patrick Doyle's Material? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A How to I Get past My Irritation Towards My Mate? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Apologize to the Affair Partner or Is There Another Way? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Can We Repair the Damage to Our Children? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Are Some Ways I Can Assess Progress? 5/09/2018 Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for Coming to an Agreement on Sexual Intimacy after an EMS Weekend? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Me? 5/09/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/07/2018 Q&A When Will the Unfaithful Have Feelings Again for Their Wife and Family? 5/07/2018 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Spouse about the Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A What Should I Do? 5/07/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 5/07/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…444546474849505152…next ›last »