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Video Q&A Will Married for Life See a Makeover? 12/15/2015
Audio Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015
Video Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A I'm the Unfaithful. Why Should I Keep the Marriage? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Where Can I Find the Trust to Rebuild? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Is There Hope For This? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Get a Mentor in a Rural Area? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Can Our Family Survive the Holidays? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A What Can We Do About Nosey Siblings and Holiday Tension? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A I'm the Unfaithful Spouse. How Can I Come To Desire My Mate Again? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Mate? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A Was This Authority Rape? 12/01/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015
Audio Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015
Audio Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 11/19/2015
Video Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain? 11/17/2015
Video Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015
Video Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage? 11/17/2015
Video Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015
Video Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A The Affair Was Going On Before Our Wedding, How Do I Answer These EMSO Questions? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse With Sex Related Triggers? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015
Video Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One? 11/04/2015
Video Q&A I Was Unfaithful, but I Didn't Know My Spouse Was Also Unfaithful Until After EMS Weekend... What Do We Do? 11/04/2015
Video What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015
Video Should We Continue the Course and Risk Hurting the Other Couples? 10/27/2015
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015
Video Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015
Video How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015
Video How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015
Video Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015

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