All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will Married for Life See a Makeover? 12/15/2015 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit? 12/08/2015 Q&A I'm the Unfaithful. Why Should I Keep the Marriage? 12/08/2015 Q&A Where Can I Find the Trust to Rebuild? 12/08/2015 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A Is There Hope For This? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can I Get a Mentor in a Rural Area? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can Our Family Survive the Holidays? 12/08/2015 Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter? 12/01/2015 Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature? 12/01/2015 Q&A What Can We Do About Nosey Siblings and Holiday Tension? 12/01/2015 Q&A I'm the Unfaithful Spouse. How Can I Come To Desire My Mate Again? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015 Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015 Q&A Was This Authority Rape? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 11/19/2015 Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain? 11/17/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage? 11/17/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back? 11/10/2015 Q&A The Affair Was Going On Before Our Wedding, How Do I Answer These EMSO Questions? 11/10/2015 Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse With Sex Related Triggers? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015 Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Was Unfaithful, but I Didn't Know My Spouse Was Also Unfaithful Until After EMS Weekend... What Do We Do? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Should We Continue the Course and Risk Hurting the Other Couples? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…757677787980818283…next ›last »