All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? 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Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Do I Do with My Confusion and Anger? 5/15/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Shelf the Marriage Issues Prior to Infidelity until after We Heal? 5/15/2019 Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us? 5/15/2019 Q&A What Should I Do to Treat My PTSD? 5/15/2019 Q&A Does Our Sexual Maturity Stop Growing after Our First Sexual Experience? 5/15/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019 Q&A Should I Move on or Be Patient with My Mate? 5/15/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for a Feeling of Oneness Again? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend a Timeline? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Properly Grieve the Losses? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Typical to Still Be in So Much Anguish This Far down the Road? 5/08/2019 Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage Our Sexual Intimacy? 5/08/2019 Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong in My Thinking? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Becoming Codependent and Is This a Bad Thing? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Dependence on My Mates Affirmation? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Can Depression Adversely Effect the Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Is My Mate Shifting the Blame to Me? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Have I Made a 'Deal Breaker' Decision? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A If We Married for the Wrong Reason Should the Marriage Be Saved? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline? 4/30/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…323334353637383940…next ›last »