For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? 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How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do You Make Life Changing Decisions a Few Months after D-Day? 4/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages? 4/05/2018 Q&A What's Wrong with Me? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A Why Save the Marriage Instead of Starting New Elsewhere? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A Does It Matter If My Husband Never Told the Truth about the Affair? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Does One Reconcile Faith with the Affair And Letting Your Mate Go? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me? 3/12/2018 Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way? 3/05/2018 Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On? 3/05/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122…next ›last »