For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? 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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 327 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019 Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/09/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/03/2019 Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past? 12/14/2018 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 11/07/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
