Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP?

Question

I am in the midst of going through a divorce after 28 years of marriage. As my husband asked for a divorce on Valentine's day, I also found out he was having an emotional affair with a CPA he employs. They have had dinners, drinks, hours of phone calls, extensive texting, expensive Christmas gifts were given by my husband to the AP, New Year's Eve dinner.... all secrets kept from me- devastating. I want to write her a letter, not that she is the only one to blam...