All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017 Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back? 1/24/2017 Q&A I Want Sex but Not with my Spouse; Will a Separation Help? 1/18/2017 Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again? 1/18/2017 Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner? 1/18/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair? 1/11/2017 Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope? 1/11/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016 Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue? 12/20/2016 Q&A How Can I Prepare for the Holidays and Anniversary After My Wife has Left the Marriage? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A What Type of Affair is This? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A There was Infidelity Prior to Marriage. How do we Best Prepare for Marriage? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal? 12/16/2016 Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner? 12/16/2016 Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016 Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare? 12/16/2016 Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery? 12/16/2016 Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016 Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity 12/13/2016 Q&A Can You Address My Fears of What EMS Weekend Will Force me to do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk? 12/07/2016 Q&A Is this as Good as it Gets in Our Recovery? 12/07/2016 Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do? 12/07/2016 Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances? 12/07/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family? 11/30/2016 Q&A Will there be a New Course Offered to Help Us Find that Next Level in Marriage? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy? 11/30/2016 Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can you Give me a Vision for a Healed Marriage I Can Work Towards? 11/30/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…646566676869707172…next ›last »