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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.
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Video Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner? 6/28/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do Now to Cope and Heal from His past History? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Is a D-Day Anniversary Like for the Unfaithful? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Why Do the Betrayed Have to Be a Part of the Unfaithful’s Detox? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Change? 6/21/2017
Video Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity 6/07/2017
Video Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017
Video Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves? 5/26/2017

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