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Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Is Shaming? 4/25/2017 Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Common are Affairs? 4/12/2017 Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse? 4/12/2017 Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details? 4/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive? 4/12/2017 Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported? 4/12/2017 Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner? 4/12/2017 Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can this Be Turned Around? 4/05/2017 Q&A Will the doubting stop? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate? 4/05/2017 Q&A How does one achieve closure from a marriage? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do you ease back into a physical relationship with your spouse after D-Day? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce? 4/05/2017 Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback? 4/05/2017 Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Q&A Am I Selfish for Wanting a Divorce after He Has Dishonored Me? 3/29/2017 Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’? 3/29/2017 Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets? 3/29/2017 Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend? 3/29/2017 Q&A Can You Explain Why a Book on Sexual Retraining Won't Trigger My Mate? 3/29/2017 Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover? 3/29/2017 Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? 3/29/2017 Q&A Will Your Book Suggestion Trigger Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me? 3/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust? 3/22/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…606162636465666768…next ›last »