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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Surrender Control?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Should My New Dream Look Like?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can He Not Get It?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does He Really Want Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Is It Taking My Unfaithful Husband Longer to Get over His Affair Than Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is He an Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Move On?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Aren't There More People Doing Blogs?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Address My Separation Anxiety?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Unfaithful Stay Ambivalent?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness?	12/06/2017
	Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?	12/06/2017
	Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Will I Ever Get past This?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?	11/28/2017