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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?	11/28/2017
	Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Does Affair Recovery Use the Negative Label ‘Unfaithful Spouse’?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws?	11/22/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Give Up?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?	11/10/2017
	Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Will Our Situation Change?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband?	11/10/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?	11/10/2017
	Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?	11/01/2017
	Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?	10/25/2017