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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible?	6/21/2017
	Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her?	6/21/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for Change?	6/21/2017
	Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage?	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help Her with the Anniversary?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity	6/07/2017
	Q&A What Happens When I Don't Want to Have Sex as Often as My Mate?	6/07/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful?	6/07/2017
	Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Does a Betrayed Spouse Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Leaves?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do We Disclose the Separation and Reasons behind It?	5/26/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Spouse Refusing to See His Affair Partner Negatively?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Important Is It for My Husband to Choose Me versus Need Me?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know If He Truly Is Happy?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision?	5/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Is My Wife Safe?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Would a Separation Be Appropriate or Beneficial for Me to Get Healing?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?	5/26/2017
	Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do We Do during This Limbo?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations?	5/24/2017
	Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail?	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame?	5/24/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Fall in Love Again with Your Mate after They Were Unfaithful?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our Counseling Situation?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Does His Excuse for the Affairs Truly Mean?	5/24/2017
	Q&A What Do You Do When Ambivalence and Limerance Don't Cover It?	5/24/2017
	What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library	5/24/2017
	Q&A How Can I Handle Intrusive Thoughts during Sex When I Can't Look at My Mate?	5/17/2017
	Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?”	5/17/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Emotional Flooding When We're Sexual?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner?	5/17/2017
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago?	5/17/2017