All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022 Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? 5/24/2022 Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? 5/24/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Tony & Debbie Mentor Video 5/01/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »
