For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 1262 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024 Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024 Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024 Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024 Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024 Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024 Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? 5/14/2024 Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024 Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024 Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024 Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024 Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024 Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024 Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Can Someone Love You Even During the Betrayal? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024 Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024 Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
