For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 1245 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Can Someone Love You Even During the Betrayal? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024 Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024 Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023 Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
