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Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 1218 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Participate in EMS Online before Seeking Individual Healing? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Begin to Look at Myself in Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Are the Benefits of an Infidelity Specific Therapist? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018 Q&A Can You Explain Pleasing vs. Enjoying? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated? 8/01/2018 Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process? 8/01/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication? 7/06/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…91011121314151617…next ›last »