Trauma of Infidelity
Infidelity is a unique type of pain and carries with it unique emotional consequences. Find solutions and suggestions for healing from the devastating effects of betrayal here.
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Video Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022
Video Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage? 4/22/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021
Video Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021
Video A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021
Video Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021
Video Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021
Video Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021
Video Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021
Video Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression? 3/09/2021
Video Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021
Video Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020

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