Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 371 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022 Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women? 7/08/2021 Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort? 6/16/2021 Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage? 3/09/2021 Q&A Could There Really Be Such a Thing as a Midlife Crisis Affair? 3/09/2021 Q&A Could Postpartum Depression Lead to an Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More? 10/05/2020 Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020 Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did? 9/02/2020 Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now? 9/02/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is This Type of Acting Out Not Part of What We Call a Mid-life Crisis? 8/13/2020 Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified? 8/13/2020 Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair? 8/06/2020 Q&A Can You Explain to Me Why They Felt the Need to Have Sex Given Their Anxiety? 8/06/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction? 6/19/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This Normal Affair Behavior or a Sexual Addiction? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair? 3/16/2020 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »
