All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is a Separation Unreasonable after Multiple Relapses? 2/14/2018 Q&A Why Was I so Interchangeable and Replaceable? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with What Other People Think in Regards to the Affair? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Q&A Should You Have a Therapist of the Same Sex? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Can You Give Me Advice to Help Put This to Rest? 2/07/2018 Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Talk to Our Teen Children about Sex since They Know about the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Hang On? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Move Forward in Light of Relapse Type Behaviors? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is My Sex Drive Normal? 2/07/2018 Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is Wanting to Have Make-Up Sex after an Intense Fight Normal? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A I Think I'm Done... 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A Did I Go too Far? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Have Closure and, If So, What Does That Look Like? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned If My Mate Denies His Feelings? 1/23/2018 Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A When Does It Get Better? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018 Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…505152535455565758…next ›last »