All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 4913 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on August 25, 2014 8/18/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on August 18, 2014 8/11/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on August 11, 2014 8/04/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on August 4, 2014 7/28/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on July 28, 2014 7/21/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on July 21, 2014 7/14/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on July 14, 2014 7/07/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on July 7, 2014 6/30/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on June 30, 2014 6/23/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on June 23, 2014 6/16/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on June 16, 2014 6/09/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on June 9, 2014 6/02/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on June 2, 2014 5/05/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on May 5, 2014 4/28/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on April 28, 2014 4/21/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on April 21, 2014 4/07/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on March 24, 2014 3/10/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on March 3, 2014 2/17/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on February 17, 2014 2/10/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on February 10, 2014 2/03/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on February 3, 2014 1/27/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on January 27, 2014 1/20/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on January 20, 2014 1/13/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on January 13, 2014 1/06/2014 Rick's Q & A Call on January 6, 2014 12/30/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 23, 2013 12/16/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 16, 2013 12/09/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 9, 2013 12/02/2013 I have no desire to be physically intimate with my mate since his infidelity, what can I do? 11/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on December 2, 2013 11/26/2013 How do I forgive myself for what I've done? I can't stop confessing and asking for forgiveness, how do I accept forgiveness? 11/18/2013 My husband is the hurt spouse and doesn't want to get help, things are getting better as I follow your advice, but can we recover if he doesn't get help? 11/18/2013 How do you deal with never knowing the truth and how do I handle his anger when I ask questions? 11/18/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 25, 2013 11/18/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 18, 2013 11/11/2013 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 11, 2013 11/04/2013 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on November 4, 2013 10/28/2013 Can someone act out sexually and not enjoy the experience? 10/21/2013 We are seperated because my unfaithful mate says he needs to be focused on God, am I being a fool? 10/21/2013 What is the difference between fantasy (while acting out) and fantasizing? 10/21/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 28, 2013 10/21/2013 We've entered the maintenance stage of recovery and my husband seems to be moving back into pretend normal, what can I do? 10/21/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 How can sex addicts fight denial and self-deception? Can our mates ever be safe with us? 10/14/2013 How did your wife respond when you relapsed? Was it more difficult than the first time? 10/14/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on October 21, 2013 10/14/2013 My husband and I can't talk about his new job with out becoming defensive, how do we have a productive conversation and say on track with our recovery? 10/14/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…838485868788899091…next ›last »