Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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Video Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018
Video Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018
Video Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018
Video Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018
Video Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018
Video Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018
Video Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018
Video Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018
Video Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018
Video Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair? 5/02/2018
Video Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/02/2018
Video Q&A What Is an Exit Affair? 4/25/2018
Video Q&A Who's Responsible? 4/18/2018
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018
Video Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018
Video Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018
Video Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction? 3/05/2018
Video Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018
Video Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'? 2/14/2018
Video Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events? 2/14/2018
Video Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits? 2/14/2018
Video Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018
Video Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Is He an Addict? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Why Would They Not End an Affair Because of the Affair Partner's Feelings? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A How Long Should I Expect Her to Show No Emotions towards Me and Our Marriage? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down? 8/10/2017

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