Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 560 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Am I Someone Who Can't Recover from This? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that my Mate has no Feelings for the AP Anymore? 3/16/2015 Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us? 3/16/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP? 1/29/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How to Handle Divorce as a Church Leader 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014 Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Q&A When is it Healthy to Stop Talking About the Affair? 12/10/2014 Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112next ›last »