Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 1062 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017 Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should This Friendship End? 3/08/2017 Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband? 3/08/2017 Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Will My Mind Stop the Constant Back and Forth Emotions? 3/08/2017 Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage? 2/22/2017 Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want? 2/15/2017 Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us? 2/15/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances? 2/15/2017 Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles? 2/08/2017 Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger? 2/02/2017 Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. 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