Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught?
Video icon QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go?
Video icon Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?
Video icon Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?
Video icon Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed?
Video icon Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details?
Video icon Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It?
Video icon Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended?
Video icon Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception?
Video icon Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story?
Video icon Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share?
Video icon Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking?
Video icon Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This?
Video icon Q&A What Is ‘Therapeutic Disclosure’ as It Relates to Pre-Polygraph Testing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth?
Video icon Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me?